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看完这个故事，说不清楚是一种怎样的感觉。只觉得一阵叹息自心底涌上。人这一生，到底在追求什么，到底什么才是最好的。真的要等到一切都已经归于平凡，才会想起，才会接受这最单纯的幸福吗？下面，一起来看看一个女孩从5岁到30岁会有怎样的爱情感悟吧！
一个女孩子的爱情感悟
5岁时，我喜欢一个叫仔仔的男生，他有两颗虎牙不算，当他手里有两个红橘的时候，他会把那个大的给我吃。
现在我再遇到他时，他手边有一个五岁的女孩，正在叫他爸爸……
13岁，我暗恋隔壁班一个叫阿昆的男生，阿昆长得像三浦友和哥哥，为了见到他我每天绕道去厕所，一直坚持了两年。
15年后我们再次相遇，他胖得像猪而且也已经成了爹，他看着我就像看白天鹅，我终于知道自己当初有多丑了。
16岁，我觉得自己真的在爱一个人了，我喜欢上了我们的生物老师，他瘦瘦的白白的，身上总有莫名的香味，他经过我的身边时，我总是贪婪地嗅着他白衬衣上的味道。
他提问我，我紧张地张口结舌，还总是特别深情地看他，他说：考不上大学你就傻眼了，结果考上大学我也傻眼了，他结婚了，我失恋了。
19岁，我正儿八经开始人生的初恋，大一时有个男生每天为我占图书馆座位，还给我买小笼包吃。另外，情人节还送我打折玫瑰，我白衣飘飘地坐他的单车前上演着花样年华。
结果呢，大学毕业我们各奔东西，大学的恋情往往是“黄梁一梦”，能够“水到渠成”的不多，想了想，最是难忘他晚自习送来的小笼包。
23岁，我变得聪明而多情起来，想找个“四有新人”，就是有型有款有车有房，或则干脆说就是李泽楷那样的，但那样的人不是给我准备的，于是我降低要求想嫁个“小有钱人”。
后来看了太多有钱人花心的故事，我又被迫降低标准。没有钱，个子高长得帅也行，至少养眼。这样的男人交往了几个，结果长得比我难看的被我甩了，比我长得好看的甩了我，男人女人均是“好色之徒”。
25岁，我终于踏下心来想找个知冷知热的男人过日子，毕竟凡人多是“柴米夫妻”，但这也难。我遇到一个好象和钱有仇的男人，他总怕一夜之前人民币贬值似的，迫不及待地把钱花出去，这样的人我能嫁吗？当然不能。
遇到的第二位男人，小气到让我侧目，我猜他们祖上没准全是会计，他不打折的东西不买，牙膏用完了要死挤，挤完了还要用剪刀剪开，天啊！我怕嫁给他一条内裤也要穿十年，所以，还是快闪。
27岁，我理想的男友条件一直在降低着标准，却仍“独守空闺”。我妈说我这人太挑剔，我说我这是追求完美，那和挑剔是两回事。
30岁，我的嫁人条件简单到和5岁时一样。我希望有一个像仔仔的男生，如果手里有两只红橘，他会把那个大的给我吃，如果我爱吃，他就全都给我，如果我嫌剥皮费事，他就替我剥，如果我嫌吃费事，他就把它们榨成果汁。这种男人具备一颗“平凡爱人”的心，这就足够了，若得此君，夫复何求！
人生就是这样，走了那么多路，只是在原地划了个圈，能够和你相守一生的人并不一定是和你有着轰轰烈烈的爱情，只有那种平平淡淡的爱才是最真，也是最长久的……
编后语：毕竟，我们早晚要学会坚强！虽然我们不能回到过去重新开始，但可以从现在开始创作一个新的结局！所以从现在开始抛弃一切有碍我们进步的事情，努力打造一个全新的自己！
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